Ladies, have you ever felt like something is just off? Like, no matter how much self-care you do, life still feels like a never-ending episode of a bad reality show? Well, guess what? Your aura might be totally out of whack! And if your aura is throwing tantrums, no amount of iced coffee or retail therapy is gonna fix it.
But don’t freak out just yet! Let’s dive into the four glaring signs your aura is misbehaving, and more importantly, how to fix it before you lose your last shred of sanity.
1. You Feel Like a Human Sponge for Other People’s Drama
(Aka: Why Am I Absorbing Everyone’s Problems Like It’s My Job?)
Ever feel like you just can’t escape the negativity? Your friend vents about her situationship (for the 20th time), your coworker dumps their work stress on you, and your mom guilt-trips you for not calling her back within five minutes. And suddenly, you’re the one drowning in anxiety. Why? Because your aura is like an open-door policy for other people’s messes.
How to Fix It:
- Set boundaries like your life depends on it (because honestly, it kinda does).
- Imagine a giant, glowy force field around you, blocking all the unnecessary drama. (Yes, visualizing helps!)
- Carry black tourmaline or obsidian, because sometimes, you need a little rock-solid protection.
2. You’re Exhausted All. The. Time.
(Energy? What Energy?)
You wake up tired, you go to work tired, you scroll TikTok for hours (even though you know you should sleep) and, shocker, you’re still tired. No amount of matcha lattes or power naps seem to help. If you constantly feel like a phone stuck at 1% battery, your aura is basically screaming for help.
How to Fix It:
- Take a break from energy vampires (we all have at least one).
- Go outside! Touch some grass. Literally.
- Try an aura cleanse: Take a salt bath, burn some sage, or dance like nobody’s watching. Whatever makes you feel alive again!
3. You’re Constantly Attracting the Wrong People
(Toxic Relationships? Unavailable Crushes? Say No More!)
Why is it that every time you finally start talking to someone new, they turn out to be an emotional black hole? Or why do you always end up in friendships where you give 200% and get, like, 2% in return? If your aura is out of balance, you’re basically sending out a “Please take advantage of me” signal into the universe.
How to Fix It:
- Do a little self-reflection: What patterns keep repeating?
- Write down your actual standards. (No, “bare minimum effort” doesn’t count.)
- Start vibrating higher! Listen to uplifting music, meditate, or wear colors that make you feel like that girl.
4. You Feel Stuck in an Emotional Funk
(Hello Darkness, My Old Friend)
One day, you’re totally fine, and the next, you’re staring at the ceiling questioning all your life choices. Mood swings? Check. Overthinking at 3 AM? Check. Random sadness even when nothing’s wrong? Big check. When your aura is cluttered, emotions pile up like unread emails, overwhelming and impossible to sort through.
How to Fix It:
- Let it out! Cry, scream into a pillow, journal, whatever helps.
- Move your body. Dance, stretch, do yoga, shake off the bad vibes.
- Surround yourself with positive energy (even if that means blocking half your contact list).
Final Thoughts: Time to Get Your Glow Back!
Listen, life is already chaotic enough without your aura running around like a glitchy WiFi signal. The good news? You can fix it. Take a deep breath, reclaim your energy, and remember: You’re in control of your own vibe. Now go out there and shine like the cosmic queen you know you are!